ICF Coaching for Neurodiversity Special Interest Group

As the first ICF Neurodiversity Special Interest Group (SIG), we offer a dedicated virtual space to explore coaching for clients who identify with ADHD, Autism, and related neurodivergent traits. We are a trauma-informed peer coach development group that supports intersectionality discussions within our content.

  • Workplace Accommodations

  • Co-Occurring Conditions

  • Intersectionality

  • Trauma-Aware Coaching

  • Reconnecting with Bodies & Emotions

  • Back-to-School Transitions

  • Diagnosis & Disclosure

  • Building Better Boundaries

Why Join Us

  • Diverse Perspectives: Your co-hosts, Minal Kamlani and Rachel Katz—both long-time New Yorkers—share a commitment to trauma-informed coaching and specialize in neurodiversity. Minal brings a corporate and intersectional lens to her work, while Rachel focuses on supporting families who are navigating neurodiversity.

  • Coach Inclusiveness: These events offer something for all coaches -- whether you’re a seasoned ADHD coach or want to expand your skills to serve clients in this area better.  All levels of credentials are welcome, including those in training for ACC. 

  • Practical Skills: Each session features practical tools, real-world case discussions, and community insight to help you coach with nuance, compassion, and confidence.

  • Included CCEUs: There is no additional cost for ICF NYC members to get CCEU credits. Just show up and participate via chat or on-camera 80% of the time to get credit.

  • Larger Community: Come to our sessions and join our WhatsApp community to stay in the loop between them.

DISCLAIMER: The information discussed, provided and shared is for informational and educational purposes only. This is not a forum to seek medical advice and attendees are reminded of the importance of respecting the boundaries between coaching and therapy or mental health counseling, and for making referrals to qualified professional experts where appropriate or seeking their guidance. ICF NYC is not liable for risks, issues or costs associated with using or acting upon any of the information provided at CoachCafes meetings. CCEU eligibility and issuance In accordance with ICF guidance, in order to receive CCEUs for ICF NYC events, you must attend a minimum of 80% of the event whether virtual or in-person.  CCEU certificates are not awarded for attending less than the 80% threshold or for watching recordings.

About Your Co-Hosts

Minal Kamlani & Rachel Katz, both long-time New Yorkers, first connected through the ADHD Coach Café and quickly became friends after meeting at another local ICF event. Their shared passion for ADHD coaching and its intersection with trauma-informed practices sparked a meaningful collaboration. With years of lived ADHD experience and coaching expertise—and even living in the same neighborhood—it felt inevitable that they would team up to create something truly synergistic.

Minal Kamlani leans into executive & internal coaching, given her corporate background, and brings lived experience to intersectional (BIPOC & LGBTQ) conversations. Rachel Katz also draws on her corporate background but focuses on supporting parents & teens navigating ADHD. Together, Minal & Rachel bring complementary perspectives and a shared passion for fostering impactful, inclusive coaching spaces.

2025 ICF Coaching for Neurodiversity SIG Schedule

Note: The ICF NYC Coaching for ADHD “Coach Cafe” is transitioning to the Coaching for Neurodiversity SIG format in June 2025.

  • 1/21/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Workplace Accommodations | Over 90% of adults with ADHD struggle with workplace challenges like time management, focus, and burnout, yet only 20% disclose their diagnosis due to stigma. This ADHD Coach Café will equip you to support clients in navigating disclosure, overcoming internalized stigma, and requesting accommodations with empowering language. We’ll explore strategies to address high burnout rates, provide insight into legal frameworks, and foster confidence in creating inclusive, supportive work environments.

  • 2/25/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Intersectionality (BIPOC Focus) | BIPOC individuals with ADHD are 70% less likely to receive diagnoses and face systemic barriers to support, amplifying stigma and stress through intersectionality. Join this ADHD Coach Café to explore how race, equity, and neurodivergence intersect, and gain actionable strategies to coach inclusively by addressing systemic inequities, implicit biases, and cultural competency.

  • 3/25/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Intersectionality (Women’s Focus) | Women with ADHD are often underdiagnosed, as their traits can present differently—less hyperactivity, more feelings of boredom, and subtle signs that are frequently overlooked. Hormonal shifts, especially during menopause, can amplify these challenges, further complicating diagnosis and management. In honor of International Women’s Day, this session will focus on holistic coaching approaches tailored for women. Join us as we explore strategies to address unique ADHD challenges, celebrate strengths, and support women in embracing their neurodiversity.

  • 4/22/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Intersectionality (Autism Focus) | ADHD and autism spectrum disorder (ASD) often share overlapping neurodevelopmental pathways, with 20–50% of individuals with ADHD exhibiting autism traits. This dual neurodivergence can result in challenges such as sensory overload, social communication difficulties, and misdiagnosis or late diagnosis due to symptom overlap. Join this ADHD Coach Café during Autism Acceptance Month to explore compassionate, inclusive coaching strategies. We’ll discuss understanding the ADHD-ASD connection, tailoring approaches to support dual neurodivergence, and addressing emotional regulation to empower clients navigating both conditions.

  • 5/27/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Trauma-Aware Coaching | ADHD and trauma often intersect, with ADHDers being 3–4 times more likely to experience PTSD. This ADHD Coach Café will explore trauma-aware coaching strategies to support clients in building resilience and rediscovering their strengths. We’ll address common challenges like emotional dysregulation, difficulty trusting others, addictions, and balancing ADHD strategies with trauma-informed approaches. Coaches will learn to create safe, non-triggering environments and avoid retraumatization while fostering healing and growth.

  • 6/24/25 @12-1PM EST | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients with Co-Occurring Conditions | Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG leader, Minal Kamlani, for a practical, trauma-informed session designed to support more nuanced client experiences. Neurodivergent clients often experience co-occurring conditions such as anxiety, depression, trauma, chronic illness, or addiction. These overlapping challenges can intensify executive dysfunction, emotional dysregulation, and burnout. Especially when layered with intersectional identities related to race, gender, class, or other disabilities.
    What we will explore:
    - How co-morbidities shape the coaching relationship and client capacity
    - Strategies for addressing overlapping challenges without pathologizing
    - Inclusive, identity-aware coaching practices that honor complexity and build trust

  • 7/22/25 @12-1PM EST | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients to Reconnect with Their Bodies & Emotions | Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG leader, Minal Kamlani, for a practical, trauma-informed session designed to strengthen your coaching toolkit. Neurodivergent individuals commonly experience disrupted body awareness and emotional regulation. Research shows that over 50% face challenges with interoception and sensory processing, making it hard to identify hunger, fatigue, or overstimulation. Emotional dysregulation affects up to 70%, often compounded by anxiety, depression, or addictive tendencies.
    What we will explore:
    - How to help clients notice and name sensory and emotional signals
    - Tools for navigating overwhelm, shutdown, and emotional intensity
    - Mindful, accessible routines that support regulation and resilience

  • 9/23/25 @12-1PM | Coaching Neurodivergent Families Through Back-to-School | Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG leader, Rachel Katz, to strengthen your coaching toolkit in working with neurodivergent families. Back-to-school season can be especially challenging for parents, especially those balancing their own executive function needs while supporting neurodivergent children. With 30–40% of students with ADHD facing executive function difficulties, and a 50–75% genetic overlap within families, it’s common for multiple members of a household to experience heightened stress at the same time. This session will support coaches working with both ND adults and parents of ND children.
    What we will explore:
    - Why back-to-school is overwhelming—and what support really looks like
    - How to help parents set boundaries, manage overload, and stay grounded
    - Tools for co-regulation, resilience, and routines that actually stick

  • 10/28/25 @12-1PM | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients Through Diagnosis & Disclosure | Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG leader, Rachel Katz, and guest speaker Andrea Elrom to strengthen your coaching toolkit in working with neurodivergent families. Whether navigating a late-in-life diagnosis or supporting a child through the process, neurodivergent individuals and families often face complex questions around when, how, and whether to share diagnostic information. From internalized stigma to fears of judgment or misunderstanding, disclosure can feel risky—even when it’s empowering.  This session will support coaches working with both ND adults and parents of ND children.

    What we will explore:
    - Supporting clients through the emotional impact of diagnosis
    - Coaching around disclosure decisions in personal, school, and workplace contexts
    - Tools for helping parents process their child’s diagnosis

  • 11/18/25 @12-1PM | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients to Build Better Boundaries | Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG presenter  Minal Kamlani for a practical, trauma-informed session designed to strengthen your coaching toolkit. For many neurodivergent individuals—especially those who identify with ADHD and Autism—setting and maintaining boundaries isn’t just hard, it can feel unsafe. Over 60% of people with ADHD report struggling with impulsivity, while many Autistic clients face challenges identifying where their needs end and others’ begin. Common struggles include difficulty saying “no,” sensory or social burnout, masking to maintain harmony, and uncertainty about what constitutes a “reasonable” boundary.
    What we will explore:
    - Recognizing when and why boundaries are needed for self-preservation
    - Holding boundaries with clarity in complex or high-pressure situations
    - Navigating guilt, masking, and rejection sensitivity with self-compassion

2024 ICF NYC ADHD Coach Cafes

  • ADHD & Navigating Diagnosis | 11/26/24 | The journey from recognizing ADHD traits to receiving a diagnosis (formal or informal) can be an emotional rollercoaster for your clients. They may experience various feelings at different times, such as grief, relief, shame, sadness, or anger. We will discuss best practices for ethically and compassionately supporting your clients through this process

  • ADHD & Navigating Transitions | 10/29/24 | We will explore challenges and solutions for helping ADHD clients and their families navigate seasonal and significant life transitions (e.g., back-to-school, job changes, shifts in support systems, new relationships, holidays). Come prepared with questions and ideas to help your clients build sustainable routines and support networks.

  • ADHD & Trauma-Informed Coaching | 7/23/24 | Many coaches feel hesitant to work with ADHD clients who are navigating substance and process addictions. We will discuss common challenges in coaching relationships, psychoeducation, and other helpful tools for clients. Although we may hear from therapeutic coaches, this is not meant to be a medical discussion.

  • ADHD & Emotional Regulation | 6/25/24 | Many coaches feel hesitant to work with ADHD clients who are navigating substance and process addictions. We will discuss common challenges in coaching relationships, psychoeducation, and other helpful tools for clients. Although we may hear from therapeutic coaches, this is not meant to be a medical discussion.

  • ADHD & Masking | 5/21/24 | We all wear masks when engaging with others. However, those who identify with ADHD traits mask their true selves more frequently as a way of coping. We will discuss how to help clients notice masking behaviors and use them in ways that serve them.

  • ADHD Coaches Share Wisdom: 4/30/24 | Getting started with ADHD coaching? Want to connect with other experts? This is a fun opportunity to exchange ideas with ADHD coaches and therapeutic coaches who work with ADHD and dual ADHD/ASD clients. This is not meant to be a medical discussion.

  • Welcome to Coaching for ADHD | 3/19/24 | This event is free and only available to ICF NYC chapter members. We also have several really hopping WhatsApp Groups, including ADHD. You don’t have to live in NYC to join ICF NYC, as the only requirement is to be a coach or one in training.

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