ICF Coaching for Neurodiversity Special Interest Group
Welcome! We're the first ICF Special Interest Group focused on neurodiversity — a space for coaches who want to work with neurodivergent clients with more skill, less guesswork, and actual understanding of how different nervous systems work.
Most coach training skips how ADHD, autism, dyslexia, and other neurodivergent patterns show up in coaching relationships. The pacing needs. The communication differences. The power dynamics. The places where standard frameworks fail.
That's what we're here for — whether you're neurodivergent yourself, already coaching ND clients, or want to understand how this shapes the work.
Why Join Us
Diverse speakers. We bring in varied expert voices throughout the year. And we're always looking for practitioners to share what they're learning.
Practical application. Sessions cover ethics, case studies, resources, and AI applications you can use immediately.
CCEUs earned. NYC members earn continuing education credit just by showing up and participating (via chat, audio, or video).
Inclusive community. Seasoned ADHD coach? Expanding your practice? Training for ACC? Join us here and in WhatsApp.
DISCLAIMER: The information discussed, provided and shared is for informational and educational purposes only. This is not a forum to seek medical advice and attendees are reminded of the importance of respecting the boundaries between coaching and therapy or mental health counseling, and for making referrals to qualified professional experts where appropriate or seeking their guidance. ICF NYC is not liable for risks, issues or costs associated with using or acting upon any of the information provided at SIG meetings. CCEU eligibility and issuance In accordance with ICF guidance, in order to receive CCEUs for ICF NYC events, you must attend a minimum of 80% of the event whether virtual or in-person. CCEU certificates are not awarded for attending less than the 80% threshold or for watching recordings.
2026 ICF Coaching for Neurodiversity SIG Schedule
Event List
1/20: Neurodiversity + Recovery in Coaching, Maria Caso
2/17: Neurodiversity Profiles & Frameworks in Coaching, Minal Kamlani
3/17: Neurodivergent Masking & Authenticity in Coaching, Brian McKeon
4/28: Intro to Coaching AuDHD, Maureen Hilton-Sokoloff
6/16: Neurodivergent Sensory & Emotional Regulation in Coaching, Cynthia El Mortada
9/22: Coaching to Support Executive Functioning Challenges, Rachel Katz
10/27: Intro to Coaching Neurodivergent Groups, Aurelie Harp
11/10: Coaching Neurodivergent Families on Disclosure & Stigma, Carol Siege
All events are @12-1PM EST. Please register through the ICF NYC events page.
Full Event Descriptions
1/20/26 | Neurodiversity + Recovery in Coaching
Many adults navigating recovery—from trauma, disordered eating, harmful coping, or addiction—are also neurodivergent. Research suggests up to half of people in addiction recovery meet ND criteria. Recovery is not just about abstinence; it’s about identity, community, and possibility. In this session, guest speaker Maria Caso will share her lived experience from recovery communities and the Betty Ford Center, offering a grounded look at what it means to rebuild a sense of self beyond labels, roles, and external identities. Host Minal Kamlani will explore the spectrum of recovery approaches — including harm reduction — and the essential role of ongoing community care. Together, they’ll model a dual-lens approach that honors both personal experience and coaching practice. Coaches are invited to bring their own learning, lived experience, and curiosity into the conversation as we explore how recovery and neurodivergence meet in real life.
Learning Objectives:
Explore how neurodivergence and recovery overlap and shape coping patterns
Hold a compassionate, nonjudgmental space that centers around authenticity
Understand how to support clients in their chosen recovery approach
2/17/26 | Neurodiversity Profiles & Frameworks in Coaching
Neurodiversity reaches far beyond ADHD or autism — it includes a wide range of cognitive differences such as dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, Tourette’s, sensory-processing differences, and the many ways these profiles overlap in real life. In this session, co-host Minal Kamlani will introduce neurodiversity as both a natural human variation and an identity-based movement. We’ll draw on several established frameworks — the Genius Within model (Nancy Doyle), the Neurodiversity Paradigm (Judy Singer/Nick Walker), and Spiky Profiles (Amanda Kirby) — to explore how environment, identity, and uneven cognitive patterns shape clients' thinking, feelings, relationships, and strengths.
Learning Objectives:
Understand what neurodiversity means across different cognitive profiles
Explore what it’s like to use inclusive, strengths-based language
Build confidence using simple frameworks to support diverse thinkers
3/17/26 | Neurodivergent Masking & Authenticity in Coaching
Many neurodivergent adults mask their traits to blend in — suppressing stimming, mirroring social scripts, or performing neurotypical expectations — often at enormous emotional cost. Over 75% report chronic masking that contributes to burnout, depression, and a deep sense of self-erasure. In this session, guest speaker Brian McKeon draws on his experience coaching senior professionals through identity work and authentic leadership to help coaches understand masking as invisible emotional labor. You'll learn to support clients in reclaiming authenticity safely and sustainably—especially in high-stakes professional contexts where the cost of visibility can feel unbearable.
Learning Objectives:
Understand masking's impact on identity, well-being, and professional performance
Hold space for authenticity and unmasking without forcing vulnerability
Recognize patterns of overperformance, hypervigilance, and self-erasure
4/28/26 | Intro to Coaching AuDHD
Many individuals live with both ADHD and autism traits — often going undiagnosed or misunderstood for decades. Research shows 30–50% of autistic individuals also meet ADHD criteria, yet the AuDHD experience remains largely invisible in coaching literature and practice. This session invites coaches to explore the creativity, intensity, and beautiful complexity of the AuDHD experience — and learn how to design sessions that honor both structure and spontaneity, hyperfocus and sensory sensitivity, routine and novelty. In this session, guest speaker Maureen Hilton-Sokoloff draws on her neuroscience and trauma-informed education, as well as her career coaching at Harvard, to help coaches recognize how ADHD traits manifest in attention, communication, and regulation, and to adapt their practice accordingly.
Learning Objectives:
Recognize how AuDHD traits manifest in attention, communication, and regulation
Explore dual-processing patterns like hyperfocus and sensory load
Learn to adapt pacing, structure, and language for AuDHD clients
6/16/26 | Neurodivergent Sensory & Emotional Regulation in Coaching
Sensory overload and shutdown are common nervous-system responses in neurodivergent clients — but they're often misread as resistance, lack of engagement, or emotional avoidance. As many as 70% of neurodivergent adults experience sensory sensitivities that directly affect regulation, relational safety, and their ability to remain present in coaching sessions. In this session, guest speaker Cynthia El Mortada draws on her lived experience with ADHD and her professional training in emotional regulation and body awareness to help coaches understand sensory processing and nervous system states. You'll learn to design sessions to help clients access coaching from a place of safety rather than survival.
Learning Objectives:
Recognize signs of sensory overwhelm, shutdown, and dysregulation in real time
Adapt session pacing, environment, and relational presence to support regulation
Integrate nervous-system literacy and body awareness into your coaching practice
9/22/26 | Coaching to Support Executive Functioning Challenges
Many clients struggle with planning, prioritization, or follow-through — not from lack of motivation, but from executive-function differences in working memory, task initiation, and cognitive flexibility. Up to 90% of adults with ADHD experience these challenges daily, yet they're often misinterpreted as character flaws or resistance.
In this session, co-host Rachel Katz provides practical, shame-free tools to help coaches recognize how executive function challenges manifest in coaching and apply strategies that work with your clients' brains — not against them. You'll leave equipped to help clients build momentum, create sustainable systems, and regain self-trust.
Learning Objectives:
Understand how executive-function challenges show up in coaching
Apply trauma-informed strategies for planning, prioritization, and momentum
Reframe procrastination and inconsistency as regulation needs and not character deficits
10/27/26 | Intro to Coaching Neurodivergent Groups
Many neurodivergent adults experience chronic isolation, masking, and feeling fundamentally misunderstood — with over 70% reporting persistent loneliness. Group coaching can offer something individual sessions often can't: community, belonging, and a safe space to unmask and learn from others lived experiences. In this session, guest speaker Aurelie Harp will cover the essentials of creating neuroinclusive groups that are intergenerational, cross-cultural, and grounded in psychological safety — so participants can show up more fully and support one another's growth.
Learning Objectives:
Identify the unique benefits of group coaching for neurodivergent clients
Understand core elements of building neuroinclusive group containers
Recognize common challenges and respond with compassion, not correction
11/10/26 | Coaching Neurodivergent Families on Disclosure & Stigma
For families with neurodivergent children, deciding if, when, and how to disclose a diagnosis can be fraught with fear of judgment, educational discrimination, or social exclusion. As many as 61% of people hide aspects of their identity in professional and social contexts — and for parents navigating school systems, extended family, and community settings, the stakes are even higher. In this session, guest speaker Carol Siege draws on her lived experience as a mother of neurodivergent sons and her leadership in special education advocacy to help coaches support families through disclosure decisions with clarity, safety, and confidence. You'll explore the nuanced risks and benefits of disclosure across family contexts and learn to hold space for parents to make empowered choices that honor both protection and authenticity, centering values and agency rather than external pressure or shame.
Learning Objectives:
Explore the risks and benefits of disclosure across contexts
Affirm client agency and healthy boundaries in decision-making
Reduce shame and model authenticity in coaching
2025 ICF Coaching for Neurodiversity SIG Schedule
Note: The ICF NYC Coaching for ADHD “Coach Cafe” transitioned to the Coaching for Neurodiversity in July 2025.
1/21/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Workplace Accommodations
Over 90% of adults with ADHD struggle with workplace challenges like time management, focus, and burnout, yet only 20% disclose their diagnosis due to stigma. This ADHD Coach Café will equip you to support clients in navigating disclosure, overcoming internalized stigma, and requesting accommodations with empowering language. We’ll explore strategies to address high burnout rates, provide insight into legal frameworks, and foster confidence in creating inclusive, supportive work environments.
2/25/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Intersectionality (BIPOC Focus)
BIPOC individuals with ADHD are 70% less likely to receive diagnoses and face systemic barriers to support, amplifying stigma and stress through intersectionality. Join this ADHD Coach Café to explore how race, equity, and neurodivergence intersect, and gain actionable strategies to coach inclusively by addressing systemic inequities, implicit biases, and cultural competency.
3/25/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Intersectionality (Women’s Focus) | Women with ADHD are often underdiagnosed, as their traits can present differently—less hyperactivity, more feelings of boredom, and subtle signs that are frequently overlooked. Hormonal shifts, especially during menopause, can amplify these challenges, further complicating diagnosis and management. In honor of International Women’s Day, this session will focus on holistic coaching approaches tailored for women. Join us as we explore strategies to address unique ADHD challenges, celebrate strengths, and support women in embracing their neurodiversity.
4/22/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Intersectionality (Autism Focus) | ADHD and autism spectrum disorder (ASD) often share overlapping neurodevelopmental pathways, with 20–50% of individuals with ADHD exhibiting autism traits. This dual neurodivergence can result in challenges such as sensory overload, social communication difficulties, and misdiagnosis or late diagnosis due to symptom overlap. Join this ADHD Coach Café during Autism Acceptance Month to explore compassionate, inclusive coaching strategies. We’ll discuss understanding the ADHD-ASD connection, tailoring approaches to support dual neurodivergence, and addressing emotional regulation to empower clients navigating both conditions.
5/27/25 @12-1PM EST | ADHD & Trauma-Aware Coaching
ADHD and trauma often intersect, with ADHDers being 3–4 times more likely to experience PTSD. This ADHD Coach Café will explore trauma-aware coaching strategies to support clients in building resilience and rediscovering their strengths. We’ll address common challenges like emotional dysregulation, difficulty trusting others, addictions, and balancing ADHD strategies with trauma-informed approaches. Coaches will learn to create safe, non-triggering environments and avoid retraumatization while fostering healing and growth.
6/24/25 @12-1PM EST | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients with Co-Occurring Conditions
Neurodivergent clients often experience co-occurring conditions such as anxiety, depression, trauma, chronic illness, or addiction. These overlapping challenges can intensify executive dysfunction, emotional dysregulation, and burnout. Especially when layered with intersectional identities related to race, gender, class, or other disabilities.
What we will explore:
How co-morbidities shape the coaching relationship and client capacity
Strategies for addressing overlapping challenges without pathologizing
Inclusive, identity-aware coaching practices that honor complexity and build trust
7/22/25 @12-1PM EST | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients to Reconnect with Their Bodies & Emotions
Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG leader, Minal Kamlani, for a practical, trauma-informed session designed to strengthen your coaching toolkit. Neurodivergent individuals commonly experience disrupted body awareness and emotional regulation. Research shows that over 50% face challenges with interoception and sensory processing, making it hard to identify hunger, fatigue, or overstimulation. Emotional dysregulation affects up to 70%, often compounded by anxiety, depression, or addictive tendencies.
What we will explore:
How to help clients notice and name sensory and emotional signals
Tools for navigating overwhelm, shutdown, and emotional intensity
Mindful, accessible routines that support regulation and resilience
9/23/25 @12-1PM | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients Through Diagnosis & Disclosure
Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG leader, Minal Kamlani, for a practical, trauma-informed session designed to strengthen your coaching toolkit. Whether navigating a late-in-life diagnosis or supporting a child through the process, neurodivergent individuals and families often face complex questions around when, how, and whether to share diagnostic information. From internalized stigma to fears of judgment or misunderstanding, disclosure can feel risky—even when it’s empowering.
What we will explore:
Supporting clients through the emotional impact of diagnosis
Coaching around disclosure decisions in personal, school, and workplace contexts
Tools for helping parents process their child’s diagnosis
10/28/25 @12–1PM | Coaching Neurodivergent Families Through ADHD & Executive Function
Join ICF Neurodiversity SIG leader Rachel Katz for a practical session on how ADHD and executive function challenges shape the daily lives of neurodivergent families. With 30–40% of students with ADHD experiencing executive function difficulties—and a 50–75% genetic overlap within families—coaches must be equipped to support both parents and children facing shared challenges. Learn how to coach around behavioral patterns, school collaboration, and core executive function skills, including frustration tolerance, flexibility, adaptability, problem-solving, and decision-making.
What we will explore:
How ADHD impacts behavior, success, and challenges in the ND profile
Parenting strategies for partnering with schools, educators, and therapists
Coaching skills for task management, procrastination, and time blindness
11/18/25 @12-1PM | Coaching Neurodivergent Clients to Build Better Boundaries
Join our ICF Neurodiversity SIG presenter Minal Kamlani for a practical, trauma-informed session designed to strengthen your coaching toolkit. For many neurodivergent individuals—especially those who identify with ADHD and Autism—setting and maintaining boundaries isn’t just hard, it can feel unsafe. Over 60% of people with ADHD report struggling with impulsivity, while many Autistic clients face challenges identifying where their needs end and others’ begin. Common struggles include difficulty saying “no,” sensory or social burnout, masking to maintain harmony, and uncertainty about what constitutes a “reasonable” boundary.
What we will explore:
Recognizing when and why boundaries are needed for self-preservation
Holding boundaries with clarity in complex or high-pressure situations
Navigating guilt, masking, and rejection sensitivity with self-compassion
2024 ICF NYC ADHD Coach Cafes
3/19/24 @12-1PM | Welcome to Coaching for ADHD
This event is free and only available to ICF NYC chapter members. We also have several really hopping WhatsApp Groups, including ADHD. You don’t have to live in NYC to join ICF NYC, as the only requirement is to be a coach or one in training.
4/30/24 @12-1PM | ADHD Coaches Share Wisdom
Getting started with ADHD coaching? Want to connect with other experts? This is a fun opportunity to exchange ideas with ADHD coaches and therapeutic coaches who work with ADHD and dual ADHD/ASD clients. This is not meant to be a medical discussion.
5/21/24 @12-1PM | ADHD & Masking
We all wear masks when engaging with others. However, those who identify with ADHD traits mask their true selves more frequently as a way of coping. We will discuss how to help clients notice masking behaviors and use them in ways that serve them.
6/25/24 @12-1PM | ADHD & Emotional Regulation
Many coaches feel hesitant to work with ADHD clients who are navigating substance and process addictions. We will discuss common challenges in coaching relationships, psychoeducation, and other helpful tools for clients. Although we may hear from therapeutic coaches, this is not meant to be a medical discussion.
7/23/24 @12-1PM | ADHD & Trauma-Informed Coaching
Many coaches feel hesitant to work with ADHD clients who are navigating substance and process addictions. We will discuss common challenges in coaching relationships, psychoeducation, and other helpful tools for clients. Although we may hear from therapeutic coaches, this is not meant to be a medical discussion.
10/29/24 @12-1PM | ADHD & Navigating Transitions
We will explore challenges and solutions for helping ADHD clients and their families navigate seasonal and significant life transitions (e.g., back-to-school, job changes, shifts in support systems, new relationships, holidays). Come prepared with questions and ideas to help your clients build sustainable routines and support networks.
11/26/24 @12-1PM | ADHD & Navigating Diagnosis
The journey from recognizing ADHD traits to receiving a diagnosis (formal or informal) can be an emotional rollercoaster for your clients. They may experience various feelings at different times, such as grief, relief, shame, sadness, or anger. We will discuss best practices for ethically and compassionately supporting your clients through this process.